Yesterday, I reflected on the process of clearing out my mom’s things and how difficult it can be to decide what to keep and what to let go. Letting go is never just about the stuff—it’s about the memories, the emotions, and sometimes, the unfinished conversations.

But there’s another side to this process, one I’ve been thinking about a lot lately: the legal and financial aspects of handling a loved one’s affairs. And honestly? I wish more families had these conversations before they were forced to.

Why Estate Planning Matters

When a loved one passes, families are often left with more than just grief—they’re left with important legal and financial decisions that need to be handled quickly. Wills, power of attorney documents, and other estate planning paperwork can make this process so much smoother. But only if they’re in place before they’re needed.

How a Notary Can Help

As a mobile and online notary, I see firsthand how critical these documents are. Here are a few key ways notary services play a role in estate planning:

1. Wills & Trusts – Ensuring that assets go where they’re meant to and preventing unnecessary legal disputes.

2. Power of Attorney (POA) – Allowing a trusted person to make financial or medical decisions when someone is unable to do so.

3. Advance Healthcare Directives – Making sure wishes for medical care are legally documented and honored.

4. Real Estate Transfers – Helping families legally manage property transitions after a loved one passes.

Bringing Peace of Mind to Families

I wish I had known more about these things when my mom was still here. Having everything in order before a crisis happens makes all the difference. It removes unnecessary stress and allows families to focus on what truly matters—being there for each other.

If you’ve ever put off these conversations because they feel overwhelming, I get it. But taking care of them now is one of the greatest gifts you can give your family. Whether it’s setting up a will, securing a power of attorney, or making sure important documents are notarized, preparation is an act of love.