You know that feeling when something is hanging over your head, but instead of dealing with it, you push it aside—again?
Same.
Lately, I’ve been thinking about all the things I’ve delayed—not because I don’t have time, but because I just don’t want to deal with them. Conversations I’ve avoided, decisions I’ve put off, little (and big) things left unfinished.
And here’s the thing: unfinished business doesn’t go away just because we ignore it. It just sits there, taking up space in the back of our minds, adding weight we don’t even realize we’re carrying.
Some things we avoid because they’re boring (hello, paperwork). Others we avoid because facing them means facing something uncomfortable:
A tough conversation
A decision we don’t want to make
The reality of a situation we’ve been avoiding
Something emotional—like handling a loved one’s belongings or finalizing estate documents
Avoidance doesn’t erase the task. It just drags out the stress.
Have you ever noticed how a task you’ve been avoiding feels huge, but the second you finally deal with it, it wasn’t nearly as bad as you thought?
That’s because avoidance makes things feel bigger than they actually are. And the longer we wait, the more our brains build it up.
I see this all the time in my notary work. People put off signing wills, handling estate documents, or finalizing agreements because they don’t want to face what they represent. But when they finally take care of it? They almost always say the same thing:
"I feel so much better now that it’s done."
The same goes for personal matters. That phone call, that decision, that one thing you’ve been dragging your feet on—it’s probably draining more energy than you realize.
Maybe it’s something small, like scheduling an appointment. Maybe it’s something bigger, like having a conversation you’ve been avoiding.
Either way, unfinished business takes up space. And the sooner we close the loops, the lighter we feel.
STRAIGHT FROM OUR HAPPY CUSTOMERS
This is an incredible testimonial that specifically overcomes a common objection, and this is the main point of the testimonial.
Mauris ac vestibulum nibh, quis euismod velit. Mauris sodales tincidunt ex vitae viverra. Nunc neque eros, convallis. Mauris sodales tincidunt ex.
Jane Awesome, Acme, Co.
STRAIGHT FROM OUR HAPPY CUSTOMERS
This is an incredible testimonial that specifically overcomes a common objection, and this is the main point of the testimonial.
Mauris ac vestibulum nibh, quis euismod velit. Mauris sodales tincidunt ex vitae viverra. Nunc neque eros, convallis. Mauris sodales tincidunt ex.
Jane Awesome, Acme, Co.
STRAIGHT FROM OUR HAPPY CUSTOMERS
I wasn’t sure about online notarization at first, but Heidi made the process so easy. I felt completely comfortable and will definitely use her again!
Experience the same ease and confidence—schedule your notarization today
- Remote Notary User
EXPLORE
ON SOCIAL
EXPLORE
ON SOCIAL
Facebook
Instagram
Pinterest
Youtube
© LivingRealAloha.com - All Rights Reserved - Terms & Conditions - Original Site by Hayden Digital Group/FGFunnels; 2025 Update by Living Real Aloha